URBAN:TE | penang

2010, wut ya all think?

this is basically my lair, with my love/lazy chair and big junk of large pillow. i can spend my whole saturday just in this room; except to the loo of course.

"TV room"


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my cozy apartment.. me & my wife comes to an agreement that everything should be "simplified" there so; we tried!

"the living"


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the first email i got this morning.... when i am back from the airport. saw some people with mask all around.

IRONY AT IT’S BEST

hundreds of people get the Swine Flu and everybody wants to wear a mask.
millions of people have AIDS and no one wants to wear a condom.

Irony or not?

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i get bored of the chinese ornaments i had in my house previously, so i went around looking for something refreshing.. and i saw this at the corner of my eyes. a dream catcher! always wanted to have 1 but could not find the one that i really like.

dream catcher is said to be able to filter your dream.
"Only good dreams would be allowed to filter through . . . Bad dreams would stay in the net, disappearing with the light of day."[4] Good dreams would pass through and slide down the feathers to the sleeper."

and then.... walaa! exactly what i wanted. a little tribal native american and most important, it is in BLACK. isn't it gorgeous?



The dreams of a nation have cracked
and spill into the lives
of even children,
so grandmother spoke,
with lips and the wisdom of age webbing
her eyes and hands.
Fear and evil spirits seep through the universe
into the bedrooms of sleep
and awaken in us all
darkness and the shedding
of reason.
And so wove grandmother,
tales of love and kindness webbed
for my dark dreams,
snaring the beads of tears
of our lost way.
She patterned herself in my dream catcher,
asabikeshiinh,
many armed and silent,
sifting the best of dreams,
and destroying with the dawn
each liquid dream of dread,
long after her spirit passed
from this world to another.
And as she had advised,
the web collapsed with time,
her sign to grasp the thread
of my own destiny,
and sift all the dreams
of life
and catch the ones
I most desired.

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Lately i keep receiving call from a malay lady claiming that she is a staff working for Menara KL Tower Card Center.

i got this real weird feeling as normally a professional/official call for c.card offer or promotion will not or most normally not being call from a mobile number, her's start with 016-2....

so now the story she came out with was that Visa card have choosen my card for a free VIP bla bla bla holder. wah! hoseh liao la, my wife can have a new card to max out on some latest Vuitton bags now. I didn't pay much concentration... but neither to hang up. Naughty me. so she proceed asking me for my type of card currently holding (lady!! if you said visa pick me as their card holder..... you don't know what card I have?) then also the card number... hmmm, so i told her.. hey sorry why not you call me like tomorrow. I didn't have my card with me today. Basically i just wanna see if they really kept the record and call me back tomorrow.

impressive, she actually call me again tomorrow and asked if i have my card with me. so i commented her for being hard working :P again she ask for number expry date and so on... my reply, look... how about you gave me your office number and i call you back in a while as i am going in for a meeting right now? and she goes, OK.....HANGED UP! hahaha.

So guys, this is serious; i believe they have made this same call to many people. you guys just have to be careful with your own perosnal and card details.

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p/s: where the hell they get all my personal data at the first place such as my IC .. name and number? no there is no i/c no on my bizz card..:P

about more than a year ago, i lost my tiffany and i found it back.

Tiffany Atlas Missing (previous post here)

well now it happened again, but i have a bad feeling that this time i will not be able to find it back. i completely search thru the whole car and i found some dust and mite and nothing else. sob! sob!

the thing is i normally only took it out before i go to bed and when I am at home. but this time i realised it went missing passed some certain hour after i came out from a lawyer office, not sure where it might be, i make an urgent/immediate call to her and she told me ... "she didn't see any ring wor. so sad!" so where could it be?.... maybe i play around with it during my walk to my car i might drop it somewhere since during that time my mind is rather busy.

i want it back..!! one way or another. i don't f*cking care.

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We Can All Make A Different - Crash

Those who is on my Facebook know that i just have the shortest haircut ever, reason due because the country i live in is ridiculously hot EVERYDAY!

so VOTE for a climate change. Just for that ONE hour and you can make a stand.



At 8:30pm on Saturday 28 March, people from all corners of the world will turn off their lights for one hour - Earth Hour - and cast their vote for action on climate change. Anybody can participate and join together with millions of people across the globe celebrating Earth Hour.

8:30PM local time, wherever you live on planet earth. Saturday 28 March 2009

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my oh my, isn't these gorgeous. my new belt and of cos my wife "hand-picked" by me heels. apology for the photo quality, the actual color as you can see the heels is gold-ish/silver. it is a complete gorgeous. the only thing is that the 3-inch heel doesn't do me any good since my wife is rather tall. so now she gets about 1 inch taller than I am if she wear this but i love it so so much so it doesn't realy matter. hahaha. gorgeous and extremely elegant. i have to admit i am pretty good with shopping! and i am so good with shoes/heels..

so in love with my new belt now. love it! love it! love it! thank you thank you thank you! hahaha. plan to have it around me on my buddy wedding day, well a couple of my best buddy. but some cancelled, some posponed .. my oh my; crazy planning. so i am a little sadden by this since i still looking for an excuse to start wrapping it around my waist :P



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just this new year itself he own another 3 pair of NEW shoes "oshkosh, and 2 adidas" i love the adidas. whereby daddy and mummy only have 1. but, well.. look at those tiny litle cute sneaker, how do you resist something like that? i am not sure how long this shoes woud last for him as children tend to grew so fast. it might no longer fit after a couple of month.

also some of his new clothing "line" lol. man this is just a part of his collection. his little wardrobe looks very interesting now . still..... he look so cool on it. no regret! :P





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it's been like what? 3 months without updating? i pretty forgotten all about it. pity me :( busy! at work busy! when back home. Lucas has grown up big now..... he just wanted to get involve in everything including playing with daddy computer. so it is not an easy task to go around online as usual now.

anyway, thanks to an email, it remind me that... oohh.... I have not update my blog for a very long time.
saying nice blog but why the blog title doesn't go with the content ha? been thinking.. hmmm!! trendy life style.. hahhaa.. should goes with something trendy, maybe fashion preferrence? clothings and etc that related to my life?

so, on and off, for now i will post something more related. still about me and my life and my lovely family, but i will put some personal fashion (well if this is what you call) touch to it. till then...............

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a,b,c,d,e,f,g......h,i,j,k,lmnop....q,r,s,t,u.....v.....w........x,y,z.'
this is hilarious......
only malaysian be able to came out with soemthing like this.
malaysia boleh! namewee lagi boleh!





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elo! elo! elo! been trying to find that video upload button since and yet to find it. I use to be able to upload video via draft.blogger to my post.

how to do that again? the button for video upload have gone missing. missing. missing. don't tell me you guyz removed the feature please. this is so important to me. so please, show me that "BUTTON"

HOW TO BLOG LIKE THAT? sad...................

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auto login to my gmail as usual this morning and get a "pop message" saying, PICK YOUR THEME. woah! so i go ahead and try it out..

and this turn out (in picture).....this is so cool. simply love it.
team at Google GMAIL, you guys are owesome. muackss.


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Got this from a friend,  it is a bit long but very meaningful. The explaination blown me away for good. Couldn't find a better way to say this.

A very valuable lesson to learn ...

Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?'
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.
But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT
But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.
Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature .

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ...'

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet
type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!

About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message???

If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!

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a lot of people now start blogging for different interest, including this hot sweetie from Spore. Babyvincy @ babyvincy.blogspot.com ; very interesting on how the young trying into making their first millions.

but sweetie! SGD500 an hour for escort? you got to be kidding uncle. compensation for your escorting time (not prostitution of cos) is like if it's not more expensive than getting an service from an Oracle consultant. i think a lot of uncle in spore cannot afford your premier service sweetie. maybe you consider lowering your price a little but heck no! that would make you less premier. since you once a racing queen before i guess you have to set a certain standart to it. else any "beng""seng" also booked you up. RIGHT?

but wei, just my 2cents; maybe you wanna try some "tanning", you know....... if your're targeting ang moh expat, you might wanna look healthier. Apart form that... you seem like a pretty sweet young girl (also HOT.. forgot to mention; sorry :P). i wish ya all da best ya sweetie.

i love singapore!

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omfg, this is hilarious. 11% TO 8% meaning a total of 3% back to your pocket to HELP the people to cope with the current "everything also went up" crisis.

Second most ridiculous thing I've heard this morning was that to whom he/she wish to remain with the 11% contribution need to go to EPF office, take a Q during working hour (skip your lunch, save money somemore) and fill up some bla bla form. I look at my wife and show her a face of  "WTF"? isn't it suppose to be the opposite? those who wish to reduce their contribution fill that sucka form up? I don't see anyone would want to do that anyway (i'll explain why) so you are basically asking every fucking bloke/bitch who need to work to pile up EPF building for the next few week.

Why the 3% is ridiculous? i don't see any reason anyone would want to do that. You see, the everage income of a Malaysian would be around 2,000myr. 11% would be 220myr, so no you can contribute 8% instead so it will be 160 so means you are adding an extra 60myr to your monthly salary. So, 60myr a month then your life will be much easier now. No more financial problem, stress free, crisis tackled.. yeaha! PLEASE LA. you can't even fill up our "beloved Proton" Wira with that incredible 60myr. Stay away from our retirement fund will ya?

This is so tiring....

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decided to stop blogging for a period of time in due respect to my BIG boss who have left us. to those who knew him would knows that Wim is a great boss to many, a great friend and a superb mentor.

Will Remember, Will Be Missing Him. Although he have left us, but he stay in our heart for forever. R.I.P

In Rememberence : Sign off - Crash

update-add-on**

there is a saying **something like this la*
big problem make it small"
"small problem make it gone"

should someone who make any comment or badmouthed you, but he/she is a nobody TO YOU... why the hell you even get bothered by it?

(the metaphore)
"if a beggar walks to you and spit on you and say... your life sux and your job stink"

does it even hurt you at all? get it?

 wtf? like that also can create such a big roar? just blogging mate! we write whatever we want no? it's our blog (our e-diary). what happened to Malaysia and all this racism and insulting other races thingy? every little tiny thingy also make fuss about it. do you know how many blog out there insulting other people and races? this is internet mate... get over it.

apahal dah nak jadi nie?

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Furore over racist blog posting : Malaysiakini

The Hindu Rights Action Force (Hindraf) has called on the police to take action against a controversial blogger for posting inflammatory racist remarks against the Indian Malaysian community.

Hindraf’s Penang coordinator MN Anbalgan, 37, and information chief S Vadi Velan, 28, have lodged a police report in Butterworth last week against the blogger’s posting in her ‘Life is a drama’ website.

The duo want the police to investigate the blogger, who has identified herself only as ‘Sammy’ in her blog, for allegedly maligning the Indian community with utmost contempt in a posting on Sept 23.

'Sammy’s racist remarks were totally uncalled, unacceptable and unbecoming of a true Malaysian.

‘Her posting insults Indians, embarrass her own community and reflects badly on the polarisation of Malaysian society,’ said Anbalgan.

Malaysiakini has obtained a copy of the alleged Sammy’s racist posting, which has since been removed by the blogger.


Blogger: I hate Indians

The 22-year-old blogger posted her comments after her mobile phone was stolen by two alleged Indian youths when she was having lunch at her office in Kuala Lumpur on Sept 23.

The alleged posting read: “I hate Indians. It’s bad enough they are famous for being drunk and rude (most of them anyway). Now they carry the reputation of being stealer, robbers, rapist, idiots, morons, drunkard bastards and list goes on...”.

The blogger continued that “I am not trying to be racist but it always Indian. It’s Indian fault. I don’t care if I am sued for racism.”

Explicitly describing Indians as “damn a_ _ _ _ _ _ _” and “idiotic”, she dared Indians to complain to her blog and even sue her on the inflammatory racist remarks.

She criticised Indians of trying to live on other people’s hard-earned livelihood.

“You Indians have got no hands and legs to work and earn money, is it?

“Stealing from other people is a happy thing and your source of income, eh? Wait for the day of your fall and people will kick you on the roadside for stealing,” she allegedly posted.

A check revealed that Sammy, who is currently employed in an advertising firm in Kuala Lumpur, had withdrawn the alleged posting after she was continuously bombarded with racist, sexist and other derogatory comments from her readers.

Two days after her controversial blog, the blogger posted a grudging apology.

“Sorry if I offended any Indians. You should know that if you're one of the good, educated ones then you shouldn't be disturbed by what I say,” Sammy wrote.

“Yes, yes, I am racist, but not all times. It doesn't help the fact that most of the phone snatchers I heard are Indians. Or Malay or Indons.”

the board pretty much said it all. i say this is one hell of a honest shop!

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